Late night love notes- 11/13

Let’s get real for a minute. When it comes to sexuality, there’s still so much shame attached, so many “rules” about how we’re supposed to feel, look, and act. And when it comes to feeling sexy — really claiming that power, that desire, that confidence — we’re often made to feel like it’s too much or that it’s something we should only embrace on someone else’s terms. But that’s not how it should be.

Sexuality is a beautiful, natural part of who we are. It’s how we connect with ourselves, our partners, and the world around us. Feeling sexy, embracing your own unique desires and pleasures, isn’t something to hide away or feel guilty about. Your sexuality, whether soft or bold, vanilla or kinky, is yours to celebrate. There’s no “right” way to feel sexy, no single mold to fit into. What matters is that it feels real to you.

We live in a society where kink-shaming and sexual taboos still linger, whispering that our desires should stay hidden. But why should we hide the parts of ourselves that bring us joy, confidence, and fulfillment? Loving and embracing every part of yourself — especially your sexuality — is an act of self-respect and empowerment. Boudoir photography is about giving yourself the freedom to explore that, to see yourself in your full, unapologetic truth. This is a chance to capture the raw beauty of you, without censorship, without fear, without judgment.

Imagine having a space where you don’t have to be anything but authentic. Where you’re encouraged to feel sexy, to celebrate your own body, and to capture what makes you feel beautiful and powerful. That’s what boudoir is. It’s a chance to honor your own sensuality, to say “I am sexy, and I am proud of it,” no matter what that looks like for you. Because at the end of the day, this isn’t about what anyone else thinks. This is for you, and you alone.

So here’s my love note to you: Embrace what makes you feel alive, from your wildest fantasies to your softest moments. Release any shame, any fear, and take up space in the full, unfiltered light of your own beauty and desire. Let’s celebrate you, exactly as you are, no hiding, no holding back.

With all my fucking heart,
I love you guys!

Dev